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But back then I was not a slut and it really bugged me that he wanted to be married to one. Donning a pair of her highest wedge sandals, we were ready. You're looking especially fetching today, he said as he approached the table, stopping right next to me, his hips just above eye level.

The skirt literally comes out at a 20 or 30 degree angle. She loves to go clubbing and she's a bit of that sort of stereotype. Shit is this how modern society is like, really? Feeling her unrestrained breasts sway under her top, feeling her nipples hardening and becoming clearly visible to any roving eye excites her.

My wife decided to dress slutty and go out without me. We argued over this. Am I in the wrong? : AskReddit

My wife and I are recently married, we're both young, in our mid 20s. It's halloween and there was this party not a house party but more like an event in the local amusement park so it's a public place. Although heaps of people at this place are in costume, the level of 'sluttiness' sorry I don't care for the politically correct term - it is slutty and I am sticking to my words of clothing is limited to very short mini skirts. Bit of background, my wife is a bit of a party girl. She is very attractive not just to me and she knows it. She loves to go clubbing and she's a bit of that sort of stereotype. In the past, every time she goes clubbing with her girlfriends, I'm fine with it. She wears very short skirts and I'm fine with that because that's how the other girls look. So far she's proven to be faithful and I have no reason to doubt this. I trust her completely, the issue here isn't that I feel there's a probability she will cheat, it's a different issue altogether which I will continue to explain. So she decides to wear wife dressed like slut costume that's obviously bought from one of those online costume shops in the adult section. The skirt literally comes out at a 20 or 30 degree angle. If she bends over I can see her g string outline. Her top is backless and I can see her bra strap. Basically it was something I would call ridiculous for public wear. At this point I would like to reiterate that this was not a house party, it was a halloween party in a public place. I saw wife dressed like slut before she left and we had a massive argument because I told her I was uncomfortable with her looking like wife dressed like slut in public, especially without my presence. I told her to go home and change. I tried reasoning with her how there's a limit to how slutty she can look before I intervene which I haven't till this event but despite all my reasoning, she disagrees or doesn't understand. As your husband you should care wife dressed like slut you're making me feel uncomfortable. She doesn't listen, goes ahead with party, comes home, argument continues. It's now the morning after, I still feel very very angry towards her. She is apologising and acting all 'sorry' now but I'm not buying it because she had every chance to turn the car around, change, and return to the party, all at the cost of being just an hour or more late. Well the thing is, and call me out if I'm wrong here, I believe my wife shouldn't be wearing bedroom wear in public. It's a special exclusive right of mine to be able to see her in that state, and I don't believe it should be shared. So reddit, where do I stand in this argument. I've never asked for public opinion on personal matters before in my life but this time I do want to get a group opinion. No, I am not religious in any way, if that makes a difference. Also, and I mean no offense when I say the following - I would appreciate viewpoints from married men and women. Sounds like the beginnings of a divorce in the making. Not because you guys disagreed or because you have different boundaries for things like how she dresses, but because you couldn't talk it out between yourselves and you are now asking reddit. No one here can tell you how to right this situation because none of us knows you or her. Get off the internet and have an honest discussion with your wife. You were right to tell her how you feel, wrong to demand she change. You need wife dressed like slut get to know how your wife ticks better. Best way to figure that out is to ask her when you're both calm, how to address problems like that in the future in a way that won't make her want to spite you. Chill on the protestant moral stance, it won't do you any good with a gorgeous woman on your arm- she only gets to be considered gorgeous for so many years- let her enjoy it. This is a gift in life, both the beauty and the loving spouse. After all, if you're too jealous and insecure about it, you can easily be relieved of said gorgeous wife, and you may not get so lucky twice. Every complaint has an expiration date, and this one is way past it. If it's such an issue to you, accept her apology, make her do some token penance that she'll agree to, and call it even. But seriously dude, let it go. Both parties were wrong, she knows where you stand, and y'all need to sort it out ahead of time next time. I'd let her know I was feeling insecure about it, too. But if it was important wife dressed like slut her to shake her ass for the world, it's her ass, I guess I gotta suck it up. But goddamn when she gets home she's gonna suck cock until I'm tired of it and tell me how much she likes it for that one, Or something equally soothing to my bruised ego. Want to add: If a woman will leave a man because he's too insecure and jealous about her behaviour, what kind of woman is that. Look mate, I'm sorry to have to say this, but you need to hear it. You sound like a jealous, controlling, overbearing prick. You sound like the type of guy that would drive a girl up the wall. Let me quote you on a few things: So far she's proven to be faithful and I have no reason to doubt this I trust her completely my wife is a bit of a party girl So, she hasn't cheated on you, or given you any other reason to think she'd be unfaithful. You trust her completely and she's, as you admit, a party girl who clearly enjoys being social and gets her jollies from attending social events in large crowds. If all of what you say is true, why would you take issue with it. Well, look at it from her point of view. She's a party girl and always has been, right. So, by your very own logic, aren't you also being unreasonable to expect her not to do something that she's always done and enjoyed, simply because you happen to take wife dressed like slut. Also, by saying that she should do something simply to appease you further proves that you're becoming controlling. You're treating her in this instance like a possession, or a pet who should bow to your whim, simply because you're the master. Do you not see how this attitude is unhealthy. How would you feel if she did this to you. Fuck, how would you feel if anyone said that to you. You'd be like It's my life, I'll wear what I want. Yeah, that's the same courtesy you should pay your wife. Just because you're married does not mean that she should change who she is just because you say so. She's not yours, she's with you. One that will be rectified if you keep this up. I'm not trying to be a dick to you, I'm trying to help you see that your whole attitude towards this situation is unhealthy and if the mentality continues will lead to issues in your marriage. May I ask if this is a new thing, or whether you've honestly had these thoughts and opinions in the past, or not. Again, don't take my tirade against you as a negative, I truly just want to help. I've honestly always held these opinions for as long as I can remember. In fact they were stronger in the past than they are now. And apparently according to the replies so far, I'm still no where near as tolerant as I should be. Well I am surprised, but I accept all logically presented viewpoints. I can't fathom why I don't have a say in this. Some of the other replies argue that I know what I got myself into because I married her. That's not fair on me - I met this girl in high school, she wasn't like this back then. As we grew together, her being with me allowed her self esteem to grow and I nurtured her self awareness of her own beauty. I just had to intervene this time because she's beyond the threshold of belief now. As in, last night when I saw her, I was in disbelief that she planned to wear that. I feel that I have a say when things get ridiculous. And apparently according to the replies so far, I'm still no where near as tolerant as I should be Based on your reply, I'd have to concur. You don't seem like an asshole, if that's any consolation. You simply seem like you're trying to put your stamp on something, making sure that it doesn't stray, or attract the wrong attention or get hurt in any way. Like I said before, I understand. But, you have to understand that what you're doing is not acceptable, whether you accept it or not. You cannot start dictating on your wife's dress sense. That is seriously dangerous territory that has both the potential to expand to Well, I don't think you should go out at all tonight. You shouldn't do it because I have a problem with it. If she had actually given you reason to doubt her, I could maybe understand what you're saying. For example, if she had strayed and was attending an event at which the chap she strayed with would be attending, and she wore something so revealing, then maybe I'd have a quiet word to express your concerns - but not simply because I feel like I'm the only one who should see her sexualised. You have absolutely no right to do this. You may think you do because she's mine, right. That is not acceptable in a relationship that is supposed to be built on trust. Your wife should be able to leave the house in her birthday suit, if it takes her fancy, and you should be there in her corner. Do you have a less active social life than she does. If she wants to share this special thing to the public, she probably shouldn't be in a relationship with me. I see this as a betrayal, and I can't find a suitable analog for me as a guy to compare this to. It's something I only do for my wife, just like her presenting herself in that sexual state ought to be only for me. And I think I should remind you this isn't just a matter of miniskirts and skintight dresses - this was essentially a sex costume in public. Pretty much a step away from a birthday suit. A birthday suit might've been less embarassing for me because people can attirbute it to her being crazy or something. The rest of the line wife dressed like slut be quoted. This and other formatting options can be found under 'formatting help' which should be a link under or above the text area that you're typing into. Well, clearly this is something that's deeply rooted within you, and I don't see some light discussion with a total stranger changing it. However, I still think you're looking at this the wrong way. You seem to think she's dressing like this for the sole intention of being noticed by wife dressed like slut guys. Have you even considered the possibility that her only motivation for dressing like that may be to feel good about herself. Did the thought that maybe she wanted to go out all dressed up and kinky, spend some time away from you during which you'd miss her, and get turned on over what she was wearing so that when you got her home you would literally tear what material she did have on off her body. Women make themselves up and dress up for more reasons that just I want X guy to notice me. They do it because they want to. You're equating her physical appearance to affection, which it is not. Her dressing scantily and you lavishing affection on another person are completely different things. I think you simply need to have a calm, collected conversation with your wife when you've both calmed down. You need to explain, again, calmly, what your feelings are, but you also need to listen to her point of view. A marriage is supposed to be about compromise, but you should not expect her to compromise simply because you hold an objection to something. I do think you're too controlling over her physical appearance though, and it screams insecurity on your behalf. I dont see what the big deal is because it's a halloween party. It would be one thing if she was dressing like that to just go out for a night on the town. It's not like she dresses like that normally. You said so yourself that she's hot so what would have been the big deal if you went with her. I agree with the other person when he stated it was wrong for you to tell her what to do. I wife dressed like slut everyone here is going to blast you for it, but I'm with you on this one buddy. You guys are young and the both of you still have some growing up to do. So consider this growing pains. When my wife and I first got married she thought there was nothing wrong with having a sleep over with a guy friend it was a hypothetical argument. As a husband I felt it was inappropriate for my wife to be having slumber parties with guys. Anyway, you probably shouldn't have demanded that she go home and change. You really should apologize for that. The other thing is, when you get married the two of you belong to one another. You both have a responsibility to one another. You should wife dressed like slut down with her, apologize for demanding that she change. State your case again, and ask her to consider your feelings on the subject. Then ask her if she's willing to take your feelings into consideration the next time it comes up. If she says she won't, then I would seriously suggest counseling, because at that point it sounds like the two of you would be heading into damaging territory. I feel for you bro, but hang in there and don't forget. This is the woman you love, treat her right, respect her perspective and do what's right for the both of you regardless of what the popular opinion is. She can dress however she'd like. You are entitled to voice your opinion. She's entitled to completely disregard it. If I were her, I'd be confused because it seems like you never had any protest to how she dressed before. She was going with friends and not alone, right. I don't really know what there is to worry about. What did you want her to do about it, anyway. Run into the bedroom and put on a bathrobe. Fall to her knees in forgiveness. If she was meeting friends, I can see why she wouldn't have wanted to run late because her husband suddenly decided the way she's dressed before bothers him now. What I find more worrisome is that she has tried to apologize and you don't want to hear it. You want to keep on being mad over a Halloween costume. The ruckus is being caused over a Halloween costume you didn't like. You don't have exclusive rights to her body. Yeah that's really shitty, the fact that it seems society's general consensus is even in a marriage the guy has no say over the woman's body. She has a say over my body and mind in exactly the same capacity as I have a say over hers. Same for property and life decisions. I see couples with your sort of thinking among my circle of friends and their relationships just seem so. Wife dressed like slut like two individuals temporarily together for the sake of practical considerations instead of anything deeper. Isnt that the point of finding a life partner in the first place. So if she said I don't like those pants. I'm actually in a long term relationship now. If I want to run around in a binkini top and booty shorts, he isn't going to stop me. If he wants to run around in the same, I sure won't stop him. I really feel like you're being defensive here because you don't like hearing that marriage didn't mean you suddenly came into ownership of a woman. You are there to support and love each other on this crazy journey called life, not pretend that you know better than she does. Also, you're avoiding my previous point about forgiving her when she said she was sorry. You're the one dragging it out here, buddy, not her. Having fun punishing your wife because she didn't bow to your whims. I don't enjoy punishing her and I don't intend to. That's not the issue I'm raising. If she told me to change pants, I would think she's strange but I'd do it. It would escalate to the point where I can see she is serious, and then I'd comply, no further questions asked. I respect her judgment within the realm of my understanding of what the limits of ridiculousness are. She exceeded those limits last night. You're incorrect in your analysis of me being upset that I don't 'own' her. As I said, I believe as a couple, there are certain exclusive rights mutually shared to direct each other, in thought and action. Barring last night's ordeal we are pretty strongly bonded. We share the same views on almost everything except the unimportant things like taste in music haha I know what you're getting at. I can say that my beliefs make me difficult to work with initially, but after being with me for a while, there is reason and logic behind everything I think. Does that mean she also doesn't have any special exclusive rights to my body or mind. Shit is this how modern society is like, really. Meaning can be lost easily in my word choice, but I think it's easy to understand what I'm getting at. So really what is the point of getting married and dedicating yourself to another individual when there's nothing differentiating them from another random individual. I can honestly say that she has a special exclusive right to direct my mind in many aspects of life, purely because she is my wife. And I expect the same in return.

That is not acceptable in a relationship that is supposed to be built on trust. After a short time, I said, Stay here dear, where you can appreciate the view a little better, I'll go get us another round. Now, after two children and the prompting of my husband I had passed into womanhood and was ready to re-enter the more sexual side of me and let it out to the outside world. Which brings us to this story. Tommy was at least 6 foot 4 inches and black as coal with a shaved head. Next time I go to the bathroom. Donning a pair of her highest wedge sandals, we were ready. He kept telling me how hot I was and how every man wanted to fuck me.